Without the Love… In Her Words! (2013-11-24)

Without the Love… In Her Words! (2013-11-24)

So I know I just wrote a blog but we know I  cant stop when I hear I song and or tune my ears and heart to the words of a woman. After listening to this song but Demi Lovato I had to write another post. Because I normally give women most the credit because they deserve it but this is for you “New Women”. I will not shy away from me saying women have fallen from the ivory tower we placed them on and some took on their own. Never hesitant to say this new generation of women is weaker or “fallen from grace" of the moms and grandmas of past but in that I must state “Applause to you NEW WOMEN”. I see so much strength in ladies today my powerful women don't worry there is still some weak closed sad ones out there “I See You…”.But you New Women are moving mountains, making your voice heard, Living your life without restraint and it's so HOT. 

I picked this song because she goes in on a relationship that is fake and she is so aware. She can tell the love isn't there anymore and she wants to make it work so she making it known for real. Like she give you the line “Like you’re DiMaggio?” Which I Love the throwback to the Old days especially speaking about a real smooth man Mr. Joe DiMaggio I will give you the bulk then finish with this process?

Bridge: And you work so hard to get me, just to let me go Yeah you put me in the spotlight, just to steal the show And you try to take me home like you're DiMaggio, oh It's such a joke.

Chorus: Why are you singing me love songs? What good is a love song, what good is a love song without the love?
Why are we acting like lovers? We don't know each other Even though we used to rule the world
Why are you singing me love songs? What good is a love song, a love song without the love?

I love this because in recent months I have seen some amazing things, some things that never change, things I wish would, and mostly growth. Especially in a woman’s outlook on Love, The lyrics are great because she can tell he is saying and doing everything like he used to but no love is in it. So for me I was over the moon because this woman was talking to me and it was so pure she says, “I found my happily ever after, and it wasn't work it was time, love, patience, knowing and owning our power as individuals and a couple.” And she just kept walking through the mall. And I was done no one heard it or was around, but she got me to talking and I found that strong, independent, smart, driven women are starting an underground revolution that shouldn't be underground. It should be in front of the masses. 

I love this cause they see that real men exist and that they don't have to settle, or hell that loving another women is just have amazing and it's OK. I am on board pre ordered my tickets, got the early discount goodies, and waiting for the event. And in the build up at the end she keeps it so real and so adult yet poetic like an artist. it's his last chance to make it work and then its curtains

Build: This is the bend before the break, When we forget the harmony
This is how water-colours fade into distant memories…

That is so damn beautiful and tragic, and Poetic. She lays it out there it's not broken yet but it is breaking so help me or this is it. She hit him with the “Distant Memories” which for a New Women its easy it simple for them to write you off like they just attended your funeral “And Bye Bye”. I truly feel overjoyed and the strength I see in old friends, past coworkers, new friends and that warms my heart more then anything to see growth feel growth and give that growth back. It brightens my day to write this one. 

I leave you with this Don't listen to love songs a man or anyone gives you if there is no LOVE in it. You have found what was missing now run with it, hell if no one believes in you trust me there is a sisterhood that does. And if they don't I told you all I already purchased a ticket to the “New Woman Revolution” and I got the fitted T for the Rally BAZINGA. Fight for what makes you happy and if work quit, but if you happy and you found something or someone that makes your smile constant then like Beyonce` say, “Smash into it”.

*We Accept The Love We Think We Deserve* *Life is the Sum of Choices you Make* *I See You…* *Infinite Love Starts in the Heart* *Perfectly Imperfect* *Uniquely Perfect* *Know Thyself*

 <3 Ty 2013

Not A Bad Thing (2013-18-11)

Not A Bad Thing (2013-18-11)

Ok so I waited awhile before I sat down to write about this song. Well, first I was extra busy getting in to shape and,  2 working with a lot of Cosmetic Muggle's which has been enlightening and prompted this post. Ok so I love doing make up as another career but with all things there is tremendous ups and downs. The money, costumers, co-workers are all on the plus side. On the flip side problems I feel for a lot of my team, I think it is a huge difference between dancers and humans don't argue with me you all know I am right. So I have a little over 24 years with female Entertainer  I understand, relate, connect with on so many random levels which is why they tend to be my closest friends or I sleep with my cast mates on more then 6 occasions(or should I say contracts). Any who back to my train of thought, so in recent weeks my cosmetics team and new women in the dance life is opening up and I love it because women are such Enigmas and So intriguing its Beautiful. In saying that it is so amazing to hear how these Amazing Creatures think and I came to the same conclusion which is“Women WAY more often then not love men that #Aintworthshit [I hash-tag LOL]”. 

Here is some lyrics from this Amazing Song for JT off the 20/20 Pt2 Album, which can I say is interesting cause great musicians are making great albums again. This song was like on repeat for a while because I loved it because it in itself is  the epitome of  Me and, a woman missing a great man because she settling for the BullShit. Go on this journey with me PLEASE…

Versus:Said all I want from you, Is to see you tomorrow, And every tomorrow Maybe you'll let me borrow, your heart. And is it too much to ask for every Sunday? And while we're at it throw in every other day to start

Bridge: I know people make promises all the time, Then they turn right around and break them. When someone cuts your heart open with a knife and you're bleeding
But I could be that guy to heal it over time, And I won't stop until you believe it
'Cause baby you're worth it

Chorus:So don't act like it's a bad thing to fall in love with me
Cause you might fuck around and find your dreams come true with me
Spend all your time and your money just to find out that my love was free
So don't act like it's a bad thing to fall in love with me, me
It's not a bad thing to fall in love with me, me…

RIGHT is this not crazy this Hopeless Romantic this person that is what the fairy tales told you about, or the movies we all love, hell for me it's not only Me its what I love about LOVE.  I wanna know please comment below i need some feedback, because over a year i have been single and now hearing so many different stories from so many different lives, background, and walks of life its like “DO YOU WANNA BE TRULY HAPPY?”

Where is it ok to be unhappy? Did you read these lyrics “I could be that guy, to heal it over time, and I won’t stop until you believe it. Because baby your worth it”. There is so many amazing people in this world I wanna say that Line too. As to say let me be your Pillar, best friend, weekly Rant, sometime tease, and in rare occasions the Love you forgot was out there. Each separate and unique to the many people i have encountered. So the track progresses in a beautiful new age way of saying  “I can be Forever” with the chorus “Don’t act like its a bad thing to fall in love with me, cause you might fuck around and find your dreams come true with me.” i love the “you might fuck around” I live in that line lets be honest its 2013 why you settling for :-/ When some I may be your forever. That is beautiful to me and thinking it makes me love this song so much. 

So the last little lyric that got me thinking is the “Spend all your time and money just to find out that my Love was FREE.” I am sitting thinking you wasting a lot  of love, care, tenderness, compassion on something that you constantly paying for when I am FREE. You got me, to LOVE regardless and in spite of. But you gotta open your eyes. 

Completing my thought on this song. I love that so many people forget that at some point in their life they thought of the Epic Love, The Adventure of Loving like the stories, books, movies, tv that the world gives us. I love that feeling of wanting to just Love and my Hopeless Romantic comes out and i wanna just let her know she's My World and I am her Universe. If this is you let it be you all the time because who you are is Beautiful, And if you met this person in your life “Its Not A Bad Thing” to fall in Love. Please give your feedback I am talking to some publishers and I want any and all comments….

*We Accept The Love We Think We Deserve* *Life is the Sum of Choices you Make* *I See You…* *Infinite Love Starts in the Heart* *Perfectly Imperfect* *Uniquely Perfect* *Know Thyself*"

<3 Ty L. Johnson

2013