Get It Right (2012-03-29)

Get it Right

Great song it was on an episode of, shhh don’t tell anyone Glee. I know I have fallen into Gleedom I was watching it with my roomie so I started from the top and it is a good show I will not say great but some of the music is realz good. Any who this was in season 2 and it was an original song and I love it, I goggled the lyrics “SHOCKING”. It is a great little meaning behind it for me it speaks to someone who is trying to make something or things work and all the efforts is making things worse. It can happen to the best of us, thinking the course were taking is right then it hits you how many times will it take to get it right. Doesn’t the world seem kind of hopeless when you keep trying the same things hoping for different results? Well switch up your game plan or throw the game plan out the window and do something crazy. I heard the chorus and I dig it because it is how you feel when things are so bad that there is no light at the end of the tunnel. Here it is and I will explain why this blog came about.

“What can you do when your good isn't good enough? When all that you touch tumbles down?
'Cause my best intentions keep making a mess of things I just want to fix it somehow
but how many times will it take? Oh, how many times will it take for me? To get it right”

It is so crazy I know the kids didn’t write this but it is amazing, what can you do when your good isn’t good enough? When all that you touch tumbles down? You look to your friends, family, loved one, books, and music to try and find advice, answers or just some clarity. I think it’s hard when you are in a relationship and you both feel the pull and push of not thinking your best is good enough or that something is missing. It is even more difficult to believe it’s working when the trust border is on red level and the communication that was once there is no longer in service or out of range, you doubt the very reason you’re in the relationship. In life you have those moments that divide your life into the time before it happen, and the time after. I mean the job you took, the house you moved into, the person you started dating, the kid you had. In those moments you make a choice and that choice shapes the next 6 months, years hell even decades. When do you get it right when do think and know you’re doing something right and making it work and not to mention your happy. I have been doing some reading Shocking I know but towards the end it says you have to live 1 of 3 ways Acceptance, Enjoyment, & Enthusiasm. Accept the things you can’t enjoy or be enthusiastic about because you can’t change them, enjoy the things that you can while you can, and be enthusiastic about the life and the things you can change. You’re only human so I cannot fault you for being what you are and vice versa, learn early on that there will be some disappointment, hurt, pain, heartache, and in return know that good will outweigh those painful and at the moment not so bearable moments and if doesn’t RUN and run fast in the other direction. I guess in the end I see the beginning what will it take to get it right? Patience, Acceptance of the other person flaws and all, baggage and issues you never know when you meet the love of your life and you or them is damaged and you can’t get it right. Step back and realize maybe this isn’t good for us or we can work through it either way there has to be some kind of resolution. Because in life you won’t get it right, it won’t be the right time, things won’t work out, but when they do I hope your eyes are open to the joy of living and making it work and getting it right and enjoying those moments that last forever.

So I think finishing this with “Life is the Sum of Choices You Make” is fine and that’s holds just as true for me now as it did years ago…

-I See You…- J Ty 2012