Betta Love Me (Right)
So I have been on a music kick since 89 but in the last 5-7 years I found I love lyrics so much. Maybe I started listening more or they spoke to me because I felt the song was my situation or I just loved the lyrics weather it was a love song or a break up song or my jam while I am working out or dancing. This song by Ne-Yo is all but a workout song I can’t work out to this LOL; I think I love this song because very rarely does the guy complain about not being loved enough or needing more. I dig it it’s a real problem in this world and need to be addressed Ha school is now in session. So for me I relate on a personal level I think as a man for me it is not just about sex and how hot she is, it take a lot more to make something work so here is my argument or the basis behind me and this song.
-All night waiting for you to call, Is there any love left in your heart for me at all? Though you say you Love me it’s the Love I Fear. If you gonna Love me Better Love right, Not just when you wanna get close to me late at Night.-
I loved it to hear a man sing about what Tamia, Janet, Nicole some of my favorites always sing about, asking for more not in a bad way but in an I Deserve more way. It hit home because it doesn't take much to be in a relationship Honesty, attraction, communication, and the rest either falls into place or falls apart. In versus 2, I had to raise my hand because I felt me saying these lyrics to more than just 1 or 2 women in my day.
- How can I give you all my love when it’s clear you can’t give me as much, I won’t play these games no more I’m all out of moves. If you wanna trust in my love you’ll never Lose.-
I must say I was a little thrown because in his other track let me love you until you love yourself I was like I dig that I could be that guy then I hear this and I see the difference. In this it’s a woman who just don’t wanna give more of herself and in the other one it was a woman who couldn't give what she don’t have yet. But in my life I have met some amazing humans both women and men with amazing hearts who I love so much, as well as those humans that just made me feel not enough, or finally the ones who just needed love and once they sucked you dry they needed to move on for whatever reason. I have learned more then I would have thought in recent years and in talking to friends and listening to not just friends but people in general it’s so hard now in this time to date or make relationships work. If it isn't Race or Religion its trust or lack of communication or one of the 2 is just a leech or asshole. I will quote the last of my memorable lyrics then finish this thought process out.
- How can I make you see it Baby, when loving me there aint no Maybe either you do or you don’t either you will or you won’t-
I just have always been a hopeless romantic the stories the books the movies the pictures and sometimes I see the bitterness of the world creep in or the lack of faith show its ugly head. I have to remind myself +Life is the Sum of Choices you Make+ and in saying that I either choose to stay or walk away. At some point you lose faith and you get dark and angry at everyone for a few people hurting you or taking advantage of your heart, I wake up daily and remind myself why I am the way I am. I find comfort in knowing everyone is different and she is out there and maybe not now or in the near future but if someone’s gonna love me they need to be all in or not at all because in settling for something that isn't what you deserve you lose so much of you. I challenge myself and anyone to just GO HARD or go home. I love because I love LOVE and Dance is my first Love after that anyone who is open to me I am open to them, and that is for all relationships. So if you’re with someone and you know you deserve better SAY something NOW, and if you’re looking know what you’re looking for and if your Single enjoy knowing that LOVING yourself is enough for now and Save some Money!!!
<3 Ty 2013
-I See You…-
*Life is the Sum of Choices you Make*
+Infinite Love Starts in the Heart+
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